In The Antagonist, by Lynn Coady the protagonist Gordon demonstrates clear views about both the men and the women that appear the novel. Most of the characters in the story are males who Gordon has interacted with in one way or another during his life. They include his college friends, his father, people he worked with and his hockey coaches. Female characters are only occasionally mentioned and they include his deceased mother Sylvie, his onetime girlfriend Kristen and college friend Tina. In comparison to the male characters little information is given about them, you learn about them from Gordon remembering his past and how the male characters interacted with them. Gordon refused to talk about Sylvie in his emails to Adam because he did not want her to be disrespected in anyway. He clearly loved and admired his mother, often referring to her as “the goddess” (14). Gordon loves his mother so much that he hates his father because of the way he treated her. Gordon recalls that his father was not physically abusive, but was verbally abusive and often treated her with disrespect. Gordon tries to treat women with respect and is angry that he joins Adam in referring to their friend Tina in a disrespectful way after she had gained some weight. Gordon was upset that they were calling her “tiny”(5) behind her back. I think that this bothered him because it was reminiscent of how his father spoke to his mother. Another instance where he shows compassion for women is when he confronts Kyle as to whether he had hit a girl that he was seeing. He is angry at Kyle and was ready to fight him over the incident. Kyle rejected his accusation saying that it was consensual and no one was hurt. It is afterwards that Adam and Gordan discuss how he views women and Adam states that he thinks Gordan has a virgin/virgin complex which is opposite to what Gordon thinks are Kyle’s views on women which is ”they’er all whores”(205).
Gordon talks about an old girlfriend named Kirsten, the only girl who he had ever brought home to meet his father. He described her as a good Christian girl who “had accepted Jesus as her personal savour” (30) and then compared her to his mother who was also very religious. Gordon tried hard to impress her with his good behaviour and it gave you the impression that he was trying to still impress his mother.
The women in Gordon's life are seen as a calming influence as his mother Sylvie and his girlfriend Kirsten help him deal with his anger towards his father.
This book is set in fairly recent times with references to email and Winners but parts of it would go back to the 1960’s when Gordon Sr. and Sylvie met. Typical of this era, Sylvie was a house wife and was home to lovingly raise Gordon. Her Catholic values prevented her from getting a divorce despite the verbal abuse and allowed Gordon’s attitude towards men and women to be shaped by what he saw happening within the house.